I’ll Be There for You

“So no one told you life was gonna be this way.  Your job’s a joke, you’re broke, your love life’s D.O.A. It’s like you’re always stuck in second gear, when it hasn’t been your day, your week, your month, or even your year.  But I’ll be there for you.  When the rain starts to pour, I’ll be there for you.  Like I’ve been there before, I’ll be there for you, ’cause you’re there for me tooooooo.”

I’ll Be There For You – The Rembrandts

In college, I had the best group of friends.  THE BEST.  There was a group of 10 to 20 of us that were super connected.  We had a lot of fun together, but more than that, we found out who we were together.  I call the college years spiritual puberty.  These are the years where you find out who you are and what you believe, and you seek out the thing you are made to do.  So that is what we did.  We took a few random road trips, we watched Friends (hence the blog title), we watched The Office, we played a lot of music, we watched more of The Office, we laughed a lot, we carried each others burdens, and we did a ton of ministry.  Maybe more ministry than school.  We lived out the Rembrandts’ song lyrics. We were committed to each other, and I love this group of people probably more than anyone on the face of the planet.

Five years later, we meet for weddings and reunions, and vacations occasionally, and we always pick up right where we left off.  We never skip a beat, and are overjoyed to see each other.  I only dreamed about relationships like this as a child and high school student, and God so graciously gave me these pretty rad people.  They bring out the best in me.  Still.  This is my theory on why.  When you are seeking your identity, the people around you always contribute to that identity.  So as I desperately tried to figure out who I was made to be, what I was made to do, and how I was supposed to go about doing it, I had the best people on the planet adding to my Identity.  They taught me how to love Jesus, laugh, take risks, be spontaneous, love music, and think of others first.  They showed me how to invest in wisdom and knowledge and God’s kingdom.  They believed in me so much that I started believing in myself, and now I am slightly arrogant.  And then they totally wrecked my dating world, but that’s another blog.

When I am around them, the parts I love most about myself come out so easily because those are the things that are part of them as well.  They make it easy to be the best version of myself.  I am allowed to be honest, vulnerable, and real, and I believe that regardless of my mess, they will still love me unconditionally.  Yup.  They are pretty amazing.

While I was in college, I thought our experience was normal, that everyone had friends like I did.  The farther away I get, the more I realize that our time together was anything but ordinary, and it has allowed me to do extraordinary things.  I believed we would change the world because that is what people were created to do. Now I know my friends do it because they are unique, and gifted, and weird, and anything but ordinary.  So I want to say thanks to my beautiful group of college friends!  You know who you are and what you did!  I wouldn’t be me with out you.  You helped me find my way, you stuck out the hard stuff, and you continue to pursue God’s kingdom in your families, communities, and work places.  You are world changers, and I will be forever grateful that God gave you to me.

Here is a short video from The Office that sums up how I feel about my friends.

What about you? Do you have friends like mine?

If you do, maybe today would be a great day to tell them thanks.  Share your stories.  I would love to hear them.  Below are a few pictures of my favorite people.  Sorry if I missed you in the pics.  It doesn’t mean you are not a favorite.  It just means it is late and I am tired.  ENJOY!

My BFF to this very day

The one where I found my BFF

Yes. We were jumping on the bed.

The one where we jump on the bed and sing into microphone brushes

Central Perk

The one where the 3 of us spent an entire semester together making my roommates hate us.

Sledding for my snowed into campus Birthday

The one where we went Sledding for birthday because we were snowed in and stuck on campus

The one where we bought cat shirts on our random road trip vacay

The one where we bought cat shirts on our random road trip vacay


Random Road Trip 2007 to Dauphin Island Alabama

The one with our Random Road Trip to Dauphin Island Alabama

Clayton and I on my 21st birthday to see WICKED

The one where Clayton and I  went to see wicked on my 21st birthday

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